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Speed Dating Tips to Date Online

Are you thinking about trying this new speed dating craze?

It’s a fast, surprisingly fun way to meet other single people. Okay, you found a speed dating event is going to be held for single men or women over 100. These can be either very exciting or a complete nightmare depending on the person. However, it’s a great way to meet other people, even if you don’t wind up finding any dates.

In speed dating you have to make a snap decision as to whether you would want to see that person again, and you fill your intentions in on a form that you carry with you. Either at the end of the night or after the event is over, anybody you want to see again and who wants to see you again.

When you go to online speed dating event, you should try to dress smartly, but don’t go overboard. Shirt and tie or a nice smart dress or two-piece should do. Chances are, you will be very nervous!

Many speed dating organizations help you with this by taking your money off you before you attend, so that if you don’t attend the session, you have wasted your money! Seriously, although you will be nervous to begin with, you will settle down after the first few “dates.” I was probably the worst bag of nerves imaginable before my first time!
Are you thinking what the best way to spend that time is?

The answer for your question is, make a good impression in front of your friend; create a fun and comfortable exchange. Ask questions that will help determine if the two of you can carry a conversation. No matter how curious you are to discover if your speed date meets your “datable criteria,” save those interview questions for later. If you don’t manage to enjoy the time, you’ll never get a chance to find out anything else.

Singleordating helps you providing online speed dating tips and advice for your dates. A lot of men who have been out of the dating seen for an extended period of time don’t know how to act in front of a woman. Well, if you fall into this category, you can utilize a speed dating site to hide behind a computer first. This can make the introduction process a little easier. Plus it allows you to get to know someone before you decide to go out on a date.

 

Ways to Prove You Love Someone

There is no perfect definition of love, and it is a mysterious emotion as far as a couple is concerned. It’s amazing to witness the bond between the two individuals grow. The person just becomes your life! For people who have experienced it, it is the best feeling in the world. Love means different things to different people; for some it is physical attraction, while for others it is more than just that. And this feeling of “more than” is real love, which I feel cannot be expressed in words. I know that our topic of discussion here is not love, it’s about proving love. Love needs to be proved when the simple “I love you” doesn’t work. Some people are just plain unlucky in love and no matter how hard they try, the other person is just not impressed. Love generally just happens and you don’t need to prove it, except when sometimes the other person is stubborn to accept your love. I am here to help you out if you are genuinely in love with someone, and even the other concerned person should reciprocate the feelings (even though you are not sure, you must at least have a hint that he/she loves you). Now, as I don’t know if you are a guy or a girl, my task becomes even more difficult. Let’s look at different ways of proving your love.

If You Are a Guy

You don’t need to jump off from some tall building or do something extraordinary to prove your love. First check why love needs to be proved. It has to be proved if the girl you love is not confident and sure about you. So, you need to do something really genuine to make her see that you truly love her. It’s true that girls love gifts and flowers, but this it not the only thing they expect from their partners. It is a fact that girls are more emotional than boys, and they also look for the “emotional connect” in relationships. Girls love it when you care for them. Ask her how her day was and make it a point to call her at least once a day. Regular text messages will also work to remind her of you. Make sure that you are always there when she needs you. Apart from her, you should care for her family and friends too. Also, just let her be herself and don’t force her do things she hates. For example, if she is a movie lover, plan a favorite movie for her that day instead of making her go with you to a rock concert. Moreover, you should try to take keen interest in the activities she loves. Shower her with genuine compliments. Be an active participant in her life progress, and remember that there is no other method to win over a girl than being loyal to her. You need to be very patient in your approach, and if she is not reciprocating your feelings, don’t feel that you are a loser. You have done so much to prove your love for her, so she will realize it with time. Also remember that you should not sound or seem too desperate, as girls hate desperate boys.

If You Are a Girl

The best way to prove that you love someone is by caring for them. Boys, though most of them deny it, love being cared for. They also have an emotional aspect. Talk to your guy, ask him about his family and friends, and your caring nature will definitely make him want you. Men need their own space when they are angry or sad, so just give him his space. Proving your love depends on what kind of a relationship you share. Be yourself and try giving him his independence. Let him know that you are his perfect partner. Girls tend to be possessive about their boyfriends, but this is wrong. You need to trust him if you love him. Accept him with all his drawbacks, just don’t compare him with any of your other friends. He will hate the comparison and eventually hate you too. Discuss with him all his problems and make sure he knows that you are always around for him. A hug or a peck on the cheek is necessary to keep the romance alive, but make sure that in proving your love for him, you don’t lose your own identity.

Simple Things to Do

  • Be true and honest in your talk and convince your love that you are always there.
  • Plan something out of the box for your partner. How about going ice skating or river crossing?
  • Tell him/her something about their peculiar cute habits which others around may not have noticed, but you have.
  • Watch the sunrise together, and plan something special with it. How about proposing her/him, out of the blue?
  • Plan a treasure hunt for your love, the clues can be your secrets (don’t forget to write “I love you” on each note), and the treasure being what you want to gift him/her.
  • Gift your partner something personalized, like a collection of their favorite songs.
  • Walk holding hands together in the moonlight, and talk about your childhood and dreams.
  • If he/she is a radio-listener, express your love on his/her favorite channel. This will definitely make your love feel special. This will especially help if you are in a long-distance relationship.
  • Last but not least, to keep the magic alive, you need to spend some time together.

To express or prove your love, you don’t need to do something out of this world. If love is there, it will just be accepted. Even after doing so much if the person doesn’t approve of you, just back off from the relationship. Love is not about proving yourself all the time, it’s about trust and creating wonderful memories.

Easy Dating Tips for Men

Majority of men who are twenty years old and over, have the tendency to have specific requirements when it comes to dating. If a survey will be done, majority of these men will state that nothing serious is what they are seeking for. Fun is something they only want to experience especially those men who are still on the early twenties. They just simply do not want to be involved and commit themselves in a serious relationship and they are all in it for the game.

You may see some basic dating tips for men that will surely be very helpful that are stated in the following discussions:

Try to change yourself a bit

For the reason that you are reading this article, it can be assumed that you are actually struggling with your dating. Doing some changes is something which is extremely important for you to understand. It can be very much helpful when you get out there and open to be the concept of a new you. When you will be so much worried about rejection, then success in dating will not likely be achieved. Due to the fact that women most of the time like to be chased, you will have to do the first move and at least try to do your best.

It matters to be an attentive date

It may happen that you have already got into your first date and there is a need for you to pick her up at her place. After which, you begin on wandering your eyes around the room right after you reach your restaurant and sit down. How do you think will this date turn out to be if ever she realizes that you are seeking for other women in the area? In case you want this first date to have more dates to follow, then you should focus your attention to her. You can have a longer evening and perhaps more dates to follow when you do this.

Being a fun date at the same time

Men who have the ability of keeping their dates entertained by making them laugh at their jokes and listen to their ideas are loved by many. There is no need for you to be someone else you are not just so you can actually make her laugh. The things which you need to do include making her open up to you a bit and keeping the course of your conversation going. Your date can be very much comfortable during your date if she will have so much fun. And when you are able to do the right things, you could be getting a second and third date. You will just have to be nice and be entertaining as much as you can.

 

Ways to Make Your Wife Happy

Making your wife happy is something that you swore to do when you asked her to be your wife. And it’s something that sometimes gets sidelined in the fast paced life that you live. Sure, flowers and candy may be a quick fix solution if you missed a kid’s dentist’s appointment or had an argument about something, but there are some things that you need to do on a regular basis to make your wife happy. They’re very common sense things and you’re probably well aware of them already. Nevertheless, have a read and put the ones mentioned below to practice. Your wife will see the man she loves and be happier than ever. After all, in her happiness lies yours, doesn’t it?

Be There: Love me when I least deserve it, because that is when I really need it. ~ Swedish Proverb

We’ve been hearing this ever since we had the sense to understand what it meant, and yet somehow, it does not sink into our brains. Worse, it does not sink into our hearts. Whether it is a relationship between an unmarried couple or a marital one, as much as we may try to avoid it, we do tend to take each other for granted. Consciously or unconsciously. So, take a long, hard look at your wife, and think about all the things that she does for you and your family. Think about how many times you have simply expected her to do something and then been terribly upset about it not having been done. If you can think of even more than one occasion when this has happened, you know exactly what you need to do. Stop taking her for granted and become more proactive about making sure that the essence of your relationship is preserved. Be there for her, be her shoulder to cry on, be her punching bag, be her object of affection, just as you promised you would when you took her to be your wife.

Show Compassion: Shared joy is a double joy; shared sorrow is half a sorrow. ~ Swedish Proverb

It becomes very easy for us to slowly shift our focus from the other person in the relationship and channel all our energies on ourselves. While it is necessary to think about oneself, it should not get to an extent where no one else or nothing else matters. Especially if it’s your wife. I’m in no way saying that you are a self absorbed person who cares little for his wife. All I’m saying is that the next time the dinner’s not ready on the table when you get home because your wife is ill, don’t ask her about it. Just throw something together yourself, and make her a nice warm soup to make her feel better. Remember, her life as an individual is as important as yours. And it’s this individuality that makes a relationship work even better. So, ensure that she is as much her own self as she is your wife. Overlook the minor imperfections and you’ll be able to magnify the numerous perfections that she possesses.

Be Responsible: Having someone wonder where you are when you don’t come home at night is a very old human need. ~ Margaret Mead

No marriage is easy. But then again, it is only as difficult as the two people in it, make it. The easiest way to make your wife happy is to show her everyday that you’re exactly the man she married! As the man of the house, as a husband and as a father you have responsibilities, not only to yourself, but also to the family that you so lovingly created. While we may all say that love is all we need, we know that love doesn’t pay the bills, neither does only love get your kids an education and make them stand on their own feet. Be as good a father as you are a husband. Make sure you fulfill all your responsibilities towards the house, your wife and your kids. It may be as simple as picking up the kids from school to putting enough money aside for their college education and paying the bills on time to planning your finances well. It’s this financial and emotional stability and confidence in yourself that will make her happy beyond anything.

Be Nice to Her Family: Call it a clan, call it a network, call it a tribe, call it a family. Whatever you call it, whoever you are, you need one. ~ Jane Howard

Keeping all the rude jokes about in-laws aside, everyone has to face one reality, harsh though they may think it is. When you marry a woman, you do, to some extent, marry her family. A family is something that everyone needs and should be grateful for. True, that sometimes relationships with the in-laws can get quite tricky to maintain, but the least you can do is be nice to her family. You don’t have to get along like a house on fire, but you can do simple things like remembering her parents’ birthdays and anniversary, wishing them and sending them gifts. Spend alternate Christmases and Thanksgivings with each other’s families. This will not only make her happy, it will show her how much you love her. The family bond will only get stronger and that’s something that no one is going to complain about, isn’t it?

Keep the Romance Alive: For lack of an occasional expression of love, a relationship strong at the seams can wear thin in the middle. ~ Robert Brault

The key to making a woman happy, whether she’s your wife, live-in partner, or a long term girlfriend, is the same old, tried and tested one. Keeping the romance alive. Some say that the romance fizzes out after marriage and that you don’t have the emotional and physical stamina to maintain the same spark that you’ll had when you were courting. Others say things change, people change and situations change, which in turn leads to the changes in the relationship. But why should that affect you and your wife? You’re still the person she married, and she the one you married. The only way a relationship should change after marriage is to become a mature one, with a deep rooted understanding of one another, which comes only with constant practice. And for this constant practice, you need to be willing to go that extra mile to make her feel like much more than just your wife and the mother of your kids. She needs to feel like the woman you love! So spoil her, pamper her, send her flowers in the middle of nothing, take her out for romantic outings, make sweet love to her, show her how much you want her, and how much you care. There’s nothing more a woman loves than seeing that her husband wants her after years of marriage just as much as he wanted her when they weren’t. So show her exactly that!

Well, that was just my perspective on how you can make your wife happy. Every woman is a different entity and has a different set of expectations from her husband. All you have to do is know what they are and fulfill them, thus maintaining the harmonious blend of your two souls meant to be intertwined forever.